Miscarriage

A few weeks ago I was told that one of my family members was expecting a baby.

A few days ago she had her scan and the baby has died.

I tried to be there for her, even though it hit me hard.

But she told me she wants her privacy and space to be respected.

So don’t contact her!

I now feel lost she also told me it wasn’t her first miscarriage this year.

Why do my family hide all these secrets from me?

So now I’m lost, I don’t know what to do thats right or wrong!

I’m too scared to contact my family in case I’m in the way or not wanted!

I just want to shut off and go to sleep!

I really wish I could be there for her in the way she needs me. I really hope she is ok and that she knows I love her.

I’m so sorry.